Will you look at these pros & cons & tell me what you think? I dont know if I'm "expecting too much"

Wow, that actually made me laugh out loud. Typical guy, right? Well, the Pros are excellent ones. The Cons are not so good, especially the first half. The last half is to be expected. Do you see a future with this guy? Marriage? If so, he probably won't have the same job forever, and you could help him find something more suitable time-wise for your relationship. You are going to have to have a serious talk with him about a few things: helping with the house stuff and complaining about work. It sounds like he needs a new job! Will he have a serious conversation with you? It seems like you have something to work with!