Is it wrong of me to bow out of going to the in-laws for Christmas?

Don't go. He can tell them you're not feeling well. And the way you're talking, it really sounds like you're not feeling well. Why do you stay in a loveless relationship? My husband and I never go to either in-laws for holidays. there's usually a argument, or something happen at the gathering that my hubby and I don't wanta be around. Too much BS